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That comment speaks to the value placed on women in our American culture. Cindy looks like a beautiful Barbie Doll. Michelle has an enviable education and professional background. But what standard gets trotted out by CNN? Style or substance? It also suggests that our standard of beauty is still limited to the old-fashioned 1950's Barbie doll standard. That sounds like a double-headed Wanker du Jour.
by lam2b2g on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 10:43:07 AM PDT
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I too admire Michelle Obama's professional accomplishments; thank you for highlighting them lam2b2g.
But I think we need to get past comparing any potential first lady to a standard of perfection. No person is perfect and the expectation of perfection is so frequently used to denigrate women.
It's unkind and irrelevant to describe Cindy McCain as an "adulteress" for her decision almost thirty years ago to start a relationship with McCain. We shouldn't get into the mire of critiquing the sexual histories of any of the candidates' partners, even the Republicans ;)
by Shelby Meyerhoff on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 11:33:56 AM PDT
"We should vote for a First Lady and let her husband pretend to run things as President."
Unfortunately (for my stupid wit's sake) Bill Clinton is ruining that line. But, I think for the sake of fairness, he should have to wear heels and a dress slit up to his thing.
by Xpatriated Texan on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 12:43:01 PM PDT
"slit up to his THIGH!!!" not his "thing".
God, Freud would love that.
by Xpatriated Texan on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 12:43:41 PM PDT
A few years ago, that might have gotten them more votes. Snorfle.
"Just because you can explain it doesn't mean it's not still a miracle." - Small Gods by Terry Prachett
by lonespark on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 01:41:22 PM PDT
Thank you XT.
I am That, you are That, all of this is That, and That is all there is.
by shakti on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 03:58:20 PM PDT
I was making the point that none of us is "perfect," and I do think that the decision to enter into a romantic relationship with someone who is already married to another, as well as using your husband's stature in the government to feed your drug addiction, are indeed relevant examples of imperfection. So relevant, in fact, that they make mockery of Anderson Cooper's remark and demonstrate in just how many ways it was inappropriate.
For one thing, they demonstrate the absurdity of his basis for proclaiming her "perfect" -- her appearance. As other comments have noted, this is the definition of shallow. He's not basing his assessment on personal or professional accomplishments. Nor is he basing it on apparent character traits or morality.
Compounding the offensive superficiality is his Barbie Doll Bigotry. I get to see, up close and personal, the painful effects of this cultural prejudice regarding physical beauty, because I have three daughters -- one of whom is a beautiful black girl and two of whom fit the Barbie Doll mold -- and I see how differently the world treats them. It's heartbreaking.
I'll make a deal: I they quit making claims to perfection, I'll quit pointing out personal imperfections to reveal their folly.
Policy imperfections, however, are open game! ;-)
by RussellKing on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 02:08:19 PM PDT
...like that glorifying Cindy McCain because of her appearance, with the flip side that less stereotypically pretty female political figures are often harshly derided, is harmful. I still remember when the media harshly criticized Chelsea Clinton (when she was about 13!) for her appearance. The unearned praise and the brutal scorn directed towards women based on appearance are two sides of the same coin. And, as you note, it's a threat to well-being of women and girls.
by Shelby Meyerhoff on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 03:14:46 PM PDT
Two wankers for the price of one. Each one damaging to our daughters; and the effect in tandem is exponential.
by lam2b2g on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 03:40:01 PM PDT
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