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Abusing Children in the Name of God

Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 09:59:36 AM PDT

How does a society that values religious freedom deal with the responsibility of protecting children from what many consider to be medical neglect, that in some cases they feel even borders on the criminal?

Abusing Children in the Name of God
By Shawn F. Peters

A hemophilic boy in Pennsylvania bleeds to death over a period of two days from a small cut on his foot. An Indiana girl dies after a malignant tumor sprouts from her skull and grows so enormous that it’s nearly the size of her head. A boy in Massachusetts succumbs to a bowel obstruction. (His cries of pain are so loud that neighbors are forced to shut their windows to block out the sound.)

None of these children benefit from the readily-available medical treatments that might save their lives, or at least mitigate their suffering. Because the tenets of their parents’ religious faiths mandate it, their ailments are treated by prayer rather than medical science. The results are tragic.

It is difficult to determine precisely how many children in the United States lose their lives every year as the result of the phenomenon that has come to be known as religion-based medical neglect. A landmark study published in the journal Pediatrics uncovered more than 150 reported fatalities over a 10-year period – a tally that one of the study’s authors later said represented only "the tip of the iceberg" of a surprisingly pervasive problem. Assessing whether forms of religion-related child abuse pose a greater risk to children than more widely publicized threats, such as ritual satanic abuse, a wide-ranging study funded by the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect concluded that "there are more children actually being abused in the name of God than in the name of Satan."

(my emphasis)

More children are being abused in the USA in the name of God than in the name of Satan. My God, that's unbelievable... but apparently true. Where exactly does religious freedom end and societal responsibility to protect those who are most weak and helpless begin? Personally, I think any of the cases mentioned in the beginning of the article warranted medical intervention. We don't let Satanists abuse children, we certainly shouldn't allow misguided Christians do it either.

May God bless and protect all, especially the children and the innocent who are suffering so much under this terribly tragic form of neglect.


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  • "Shut their windows to block out the sound"? (6+ / 0-)

    would an alternative have been to call Child Protective Services?

    "...there has never been a conservative prophet."
    --Obery M. Hendricks Jr. in The Politics of Jesus.

    by rosel on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 10:50:47 AM PDT

  • I did not join this site (4+ / 0-)

    just to plug my friend's new web site, but again, this is right on point. These people who torture their children, kill their children, in the name of God need to take a fresh look at their Bible. Because the way they're reading it, is sure seems like Satan wrote it.

    This is horrific. I'm not an emotional person, but nothing pisses me off more than Children in pain. And when that pain is inflicted on them, when their death is caused, by the people who are supposed to love and protect them, I really get upset.

    I'm going to have to go for a walk now. Thanks for this. I'm tempted to print it and go nail it to the door of every Church in my neighborhood.

    The opposite of the religious fanatic is not the fanatical atheist but the gentle cynic who cares not whether there is a god or not.-Eric Hoffer

    by supak on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 02:34:49 PM PDT

  • Hmm... (6+ / 0-)

    Some thoughts.

    Adults are, well, adults.  Fully capable of making decisions about their own well-being.  Fully capable of denying themselves whatever they choose to deny or fulfilling whatever it is they choose... and dealing with the consequences thereof.

    HOWEVER, children are a different story.  And many many times need the protection from said adults.  Children need to be protected from "fully capable" adults even when such protection would be in direct violation of the adults' decision.

    Think carseats.  A big issue for me.  A child can't make the decision... and may even need to be protected from the adult who doesn't think a carseat necessarily important.

    Yes, there are lots of gray areas we, as parents, find ourselves in.  Some parents are for spanking, while others are not.  But there simply must be a foundation in which to direct from.  Medical care is such a foundation... life and death healthcare is just one of those areas where there is no room for a "fully capable" adult making a very bad decision for their child.  A child, helpless and vulnerable to decisions made about their own mortality.  Wrong.  

    I don't want to live... I want to love first, and live incidentally. ~Zelda Fitzgerald

    by knucklelady on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 02:46:11 PM PDT

  • Let's call this what is IS, shall we? (4+ / 0-)

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    Criminal neglect, pure and simple.

    Prosecute vigorously, punish severely, and ignore the parents' squeals of "Christian persecution". Fuck them, fuck their twisted religious notions, and protect the children.

    I'll live the rest of my life with the consequences of childhood sexual abuse aggravated by fundamentalist "Christians". If I ever caught someone unquestionably abusing a child, the abuser would never know what hit them.

    • an example of hate (0+ / 0-)

      Since I seem to be the "fundamentalist evangelical" in the group I bristle at your comments. I would also say that abuse is a relative term since my POV is that bringing a child up to worship satan constitutes abuse of children. Since I would never tell another human being to raise their children according to MY beliefs then I would not interfere. Do I grieve at the loss of these children, you bet. Were these parents wrong? I would have to know the circumstances but most likely, yes, they were wrong. If charges were not brought then I would say that none could have been brought since society has not been lax in bringing charges.

      So as a fundie I bristle at your comments here.

      EXCUSE ME?

      Fuck me?

      So we scream "fuck you" back at each other WHAT DOES THIS SOLVE?

      I'll live the rest of my life with the consequences of childhood sexual abuse aggravated by fundamentalist "Christians".

      You paint with such broad strokes! Should I label each person who has abused me as a part of the "group" that they represent? Ok, lets see here. and is also bisexual. So all people with an IQ less than 80 are horrible and so are all bisexuals.

      Yours is an example of hatred in the extreme.

      Don't forget to lump all Jehovahs Witnesses and Christian Scientists with the Christian Fundies you seem to hate so much. They also have thought twice about modern medicine how it "heals" so wonderfully---NOT. Doctors have made so many mistakes over the years, I could hand you a list. Let's talk about the mistakes that they have made with my children...and I took them to the doctor, to some of the best hospitals in the country.

      "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

      by standingfirm on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 10:02:52 AM PDT

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      • Try reading some of Wolfie's posts (3+ / 0-)

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        before you go off on him.  He has far too much solid reason to feel the way he does, and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with anything you have said or done!

        • i have read some of his posts (0 / 0)

          Werewolf, I am sorry that you have been hurt in your life and that people still hurt you. All I can say it that I do understand. My life has not been a bed of roses. We may not share the same circumstances and this is not a "who has or has had it worse than who" thing but I could let lose about my life in a way that would turn heads gray.

          What I have learned from my life and how I have applied it to my life? Yesterday is gone. It's an illusion that we keep alive when we bring it to today. Today has enough trouble of its own. I have learned to forgive and move on because forgiveness is a gift to me and for me. When you learn how to forgive you free your own heart of all its pent up hurts. Hurt does not give us the right to hate...that's some of what I have learned.

          If you need an example from my life I will gladly share it. I no longer have the need but my life is an open book and some of what has occured can be found around the net.

          "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

          by standingfirm on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 03:11:47 PM PDT

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          • Are you aware that childhood sexual abuse ... (2+ / 0-)

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            ... and the (frequently) consequent PTSD permanently alters various brain structures? So no, that particular yesterday of mine is NOT gone, is NOT an "illusion". It is here with me right now as I respond to you, and will be with me the rest of my life. And it's DIRECTLY related to being bludgeoned by an Evangelical with the Leviticus verses about men laying with men when I was 11 years old and had just been raped by a 32 year old man.

            And I've seen the exact same attitude and world view result in gay friends being thrown out of their homes in their teens, left to fend for themselves on the street. I've served as a volunteer on a Gay Switchboard and dealt with near-suicidal kids because their pastor has told them that their natural sexual orientation is an abomination is God's eyes. I've held the hands of several men as they died of AIDS, abandoned by their parents.

            And it's all because of the Evangelical (mis)understanding of a tiny handful of very hotly debated Bible verses.

            So please, don't lecture me about forgiveness when Evangelicals continue to demean and destroy good men & women solely because we love differently.

            • I feel your pain (3+ / 0-)

              As a male survivor of pedophelia I have found it very difficult to be forgiving of gay men, however, I know in my heart that the crimes of one man do not represent the whole of the community. I would also say that I do not believe my assailant was gay, my assailants were pedophiles, and these are very different things.
               
               I hope you will find understanding of my hidden trigger's to this lifestyle, as I work on learning to cope with them as well.

               As you say, it never really goes away, to this day, I still see those eyes...

               For me, it was ultimately in forgiveness that I reclaimed the remnants of my life. Not so much in that I forgave my assailant, it was in learning to forgive myself.

              27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

              by Kozzmo on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 04:42:30 PM PDT

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              • My prayers to you, for peace & continued healing. (2+ / 0-)

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                You have my complete acceptance of your triggers, Kozzmo, and my gratitude for your work to separate "gay" from "pedophile", as we both know they are not the same thing.

                I've had to come at that particular Gordian Knot from the other side - I'm gay, and had to separate my inherent, natural sexual orientation from the sexual & religious abuse I experienced.

                Your comment about still seeing "those eyes" made me suddenly realize that a certain Evangelical tone triggers me. And as evidenced by some of my recent posts, it's a powerful trigger, but at least it now turns on the "Fight" response, rather than "Flight" which for me, took the form of implosive depression.

                Yah, that self-forgiveness is a bitch! I'm better at it now than a few years ago, but it still needs a lot of work. But forgiving those in the here-and-now that perpetuate abuse on my fellow GLBT folk? Well, one is supposed to never say never ...

                Namaste, Fellow Traveler

                P.S.

                Are you aware of the MaleSurvivor discussion board? It's a great place to talk about male survivor issues and it's carefully moderated for the safety of its members. MaleSurvivor also offers Weekends of Recovery, intensive, therapist-lead, peer-support retreats that are AMAZING!

                From the "Weekends of Recovery" page:

                The Weekends of Recovery were begun in 2001 by MaleSurvivor as an additional service to our members to help them make further progress in their recovery. The weekends were designed to assist any adult survivor who was seeking further support in his recovery by being in the company of other male survivors. In addition, the weekends were designed to introduce additional tools men could use when they returned home to assist in making further headway in their recovery. It was felt from the beginning that the weekends needed to be highly structured and professionally facilitated utilizing the highest professional standards available. Weekends of Recovery are facilitated by trained therapists, utilizing the same clinical boundaries and code of ethics as adopted by the American Psychological Association. The weekends are adjuncts to participants’ ongoing recovery work with individual and/or group psychotherapy, twelve step programs, and individual spiritual work, and are not meant to substitute for the participants’ local support systems that are consistent with their own recovery.

                • I'm not gay (1+ / 0-)

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                  I do have some definite transgender tendancies though. I'm just not attracted to other men, in fact in many respects I despise men. You might observe a manifestation of this when from time to time I go on a radical feminist rant....

                   It's ironic, because while many would peg me as being a radical lesbian feminist, I'm really quite conservative.

                   I just have a tendancy to have a deep Love for women, and subsequently put them on a bit of a pedastle. This is probably because the woman involved in my assault ultimately saved my life.

                   This probably also accounts for my anger directed at men....

                  (Thats also why in my prior comment I flipped from the terms assailant and assailants)

                  At any rate, I'm fairly comfortable with myself these days, or I would not be so open about the topic.

                  27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

                  by Kozzmo on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 05:51:47 PM PDT

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          • Hatred, or defense? (4+ / 0-)

            standingfirm : "Hurt does not give us the right to hate...that's some of what I have learned."

            Had it occurred to you that it's not hate I carry, but anger and the desire to defend myself and my fellow GLBT folk from any further abuse?

            • this sounds like hate (0 / 0)

              Prosecute vigorously, punish severely, and ignore the parents' squeals of "Christian persecution". Fuck them, fuck their twisted religious notions, and protect the children.

              I'll live the rest of my life with the consequences of childhood sexual abuse aggravated by fundamentalist "Christians". If I ever caught someone unquestionably abusing a child, the abuser would never know what hit them.

              Anger yes, but hate too.

              I am a fundamentalist Christian. I resent it when people hijack my "label" as they do when they abuse anyone in the name of my faith. Those that abuse should be prosecuted. It does seem as though you are blaming all fundamentalist Christians on this problem.

              "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

              by standingfirm on Mon Jan 07, 2008 at 08:14:48 AM PDT

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              • Try not to take it personally (1+ / 0-)

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                Trigger's are a very real thing. When your dealing with intense emotional trauma, things get very confused.

                 Have you ever had your mind literally ripped apart? Not wanting to believe what is happening, terrified, ashamed, paralyzed, unable to stop what is happening? Completely devoid of power?

                 For me the flashbacks always began with a child screaming. It was the most blood curdling cry I could ever imagine. At last I realized that was my scream.

                 When I get angry even today, I have to fix it. Many people internalize this through what is referred to in slang as cutting. I myself externalize my self injury through breaking things. I know today was somewhat stressful, and I engaged in this activity. When i was done, (it was just a broom handle) I fell to the floor exhausted, emotionally spent.

                 Religous abuse is a very powerful emotion, and it is something I have encountered on many occaisons.

                Your comment about still seeing "those eyes" made me suddenly realize that a certain Evangelical tone triggers me. And as evidenced by some of my recent posts, it's a powerful trigger, but at least it now turns on the "Fight" response, rather than "Flight" which for me, took the form of implosive depression.

                 There was a reason I wrote many comments that this was a triggering post, and that it is something to be wary of. This is what I refering to.

                 So please try to be tolerant of what you are witnessing. I try to reinforce two concepts when dealing with emotional trauma.

                1. Everyone is entitled to thier feelings, so try not to diminish these.

                You actually mentioned this earlier.

                this is not a "who has or has had it worse than who

                "

                2)Do not pass judgement upon people that are experiencing these emotions. Just try to listen to what they are saying, and accept it for what it is.

                27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

                by Kozzmo on Mon Jan 07, 2008 at 06:49:11 PM PDT

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                • rubber bands (0 / 0)

                  You are making an assumption that I have no "triggers" of my own. I was molested for 7 years by someone a lot older than me. Want me to tell you what I have experienced? I confronted this man about 8 years or so ago. It was a powerful testimony to the power of forgiveness. You are making assumptions that I have not experienced what you describe. Flashbacks? You want to talk to my husband about flashbacks---he has witnessed many of mine.

                  Because I have been hurt does NOT give me the right to lash out in hatred. If you lash out in an abusive way toward me, I have learned to say "back off Jack" and that is what I am doing here. Tough love means calling people to task when they cross a line and I still believe a line was crossed here.

                  We all tend to become self absorbed when hurt. We want to be coddled. We do this with emotional hurts to. When we are hurt we tend to allow people a wide latitude to say what they want because they are having a "rough time".

                  This is not right. Even in our worst of times we need to not think ourselves entitled or having more rights than others. I am sorry that the world is full of abusive, power hungry and people who seem to love evil. Many of us have been hurt, but it does no good to lash out at others because of that hurt----to do so puts them into our circle of victimization.

                  I can be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear while someone get it off their chest, but I will not be a punching bag. That is just not healthy for anyone.

                  "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

                  by standingfirm on Tue Jan 08, 2008 at 08:15:12 AM PDT

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                  • I'm sorry (1+ / 0-)

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                    I actually assumed that you had been through this.

                     Believe it or not, If you read through the post's, you'll find that I have been defending the religous right, and I have been defending your views as well.

                     It's not easy for any of us. I've been chased out of more than one chat room for my faith in God.

                     So if I have offended you, I offer you my humblest apology.

                     I just don't try to take it personally when someone trigger's, it is a part of this.

                    And honestly, I do agree with what your saying, You already showed me your wisdom, that is why I quoted you.

                    27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

                    by Kozzmo on Tue Jan 08, 2008 at 09:29:37 PM PDT

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                    • i think my mother (0 / 0)

                      ..has visited her tone upon me. I really need to be careful with how I sound. I have become way to snarky and I don't feel snark.

                      I could blame it on the withdrawal from my antidepressants but I don't think that my problem in communication can be entirely blamed on that.

                      I will try to improve my tone.

                      I sound argumentative when I am agreeing. My frustration is within myself and stems from placing the same standards that I hold for myself on others. That is not wise.

                      I assumed that because I fought to break out of the chains that bind me that all people should desire this. I assumed that breaking free from what keeps us as victims is the best thing for all people. I assumed that what I viewed as best for my life is the same thing that everyone would want.

                      The only reason that I point back or even pay attention to the hurts in my life is to point out that we do not have to be victims forever. Someone told me this when I was very young, too young to understand. I finally found out what they were talking about, after all these years, and I am excited about my answer. I have to stop assuming things.

                      Thank you for lovingly pointing out my attitude. I apologize for being b*tch*.

                      P.S. the next med that i have to get off is my hrt, I will stay away from the internet before I do THAT ;-)

                      "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

                      by standingfirm on Wed Jan 09, 2008 at 06:27:26 AM PDT

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  • This makes me wonder (5+ / 0-)

    For a long time this nation had a BIG problem with emergency medicine.  Failed attempts at intervention by medical professionals opened the door to civil lawsuits.  As one might conjecture, many victims in need of emergency intervention just aren't in good enough shape to survive.  The fear of damages from an unsuccessful resuscitation attempt was preventing skilled intervention.

    The problem was eventually solved through the introduction of Good Samaritan Laws.  These laws allowed skilled persons to intervene on a best-effort basis, free from legal damages if an attempt fails.  The net result on society was an increase in survival rates.  Obviously this was a wonderful outcome.

    Yet I wonder - legally, medical professionals cannot give treatments a child's guardians don't authorize.  Could it be that such situations may require a similar approach?


    May God bless EVERYONE.

    by Richard Bowser on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 05:30:29 PM PDT

    • Sucy a system is already in place (0 / 0)

      I can't speak for Texas or Missouri, but for 20 or  30 years in New York and Massachusetts there has been a well developed (and sometimes overzealous) system of Child Protective Services, whereby 'mandated reporters', such as teachers, daycare workers, emergency room triage nurses and police can call on a broad spectrum of legal and profession services to evaluate and intervene in cases of suspected abuse and/or neglect.

      Also, a large part of the problem 'went away' of its own accord as Christian Scientists began to reevaluate their practices in light of the post-antibiotic medical era, and the medical profession developed "transfusion free" surgery -- accommodating the Witnesses and Adventists who sometimes stood on religious principle during a pediatric health crisis.

      There are however, always a grey areas when a weak diagnosis meets a strong religious scruple.

      And if home-schooling parents choose to keep their children out of sight of the Authorities  -- as is their right -- from time to time it will be the State Coroner who will have to determine 'what went wrong.'

  • In fairness (2+ / 0-)

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    Comparing the belief in faith healing, and the subsequent negligence of not taking a child to a doctor is nowhere in the ballpark of satanic ritual torture and abuse directed at children. (and the word Torture should be emphasised here, cause in these cases waterboarding would appear mild)

     Now this is a very rare form of abuse, and in truth, you will find many more cases of child abuse that have occured in Christian homes, than Satanic homes, however this is because Christianity is far more common a faith.

     I'm all for stopping child abuse, however it is a very triggering topic, and it is unfair to use this as a weapon to bludgeon the religous right.
    Kozzmo

    27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

    by Kozzmo on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 06:28:17 PM PDT

    • Allowing.... (0 / 0)

      children to suffer terribly and die horribly, without comfort and care is cruel, ignorant and criminal. Period. No matter if you're a christian, satanist or just an unaffiliated child abuser. Abuse is abuse. Children trapped in so-called Christian homes that allow this abuse to happen should have their children removed from their custody. If Britney Spears can't keep hers for far less serious transgressions these folks certainly shouldn't be trusted to take care of theirs.  

      • If you want to talk about child abuse (0 / 0)

         Here are some numbers

         According to the NCANDS Summary In 2004, an estimated 1,490 children in the United States died due to child abuse or neglect.

        For Federal fiscal year 2004, an estimated 3 million children were alleged to have been abused or neglected and received investigations or assessments by State and local child protective services (CPS) agencies. Approximately 872,000 children were determined to be victims of child maltreatment.

         I certainly don't want to diminish anyones feelings, everyone is entitled to them. I just don't want to confuse the issue by adding political spin. That does not solve the problem. A real solution will require a collaborative effort.

        27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

        by Kozzmo on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 11:15:53 PM PDT

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        • Who is... (0 / 0)

          adding political spin?

          • From the name of the article (0 / 0)

            Abusing Children in the Name of God

            I assumed that this was going to be a discussion of child abuse. It is a topic I take very seriously.

             As I read on I saw this statement.

            A landmark study published in the journal Pediatrics uncovered more than 150 reported fatalities over a 10-year period – a tally that one of the study’s authors later said represented only "the tip of the iceberg" of a surprisingly pervasive problem. Assessing whether forms of religion-related child abuse pose a greater risk to children than more widely publicized threats, such as ritual satanic abuse, a wide-ranging study funded by the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect concluded that "there are more children actually being abused in the name of God than in the name of Satan."

             Now my first thought was of one of my friends that was a survivor of satanic ritual abuse. And I thought that the base comparison was outlandish.

             Now while I would admit that the study is no doubt true, for in my experience I've met far more survivor's from Christian families than from Satanic cult's, it seems to be diminishing to survivor's of either experience. And this is my base criticism.

             Words are very powerful. The article as written would seem to for instance make the suggestion that the Amish are child abuser's, because they choose to live without the marvels of modern science.

             Now while it is fair to question the judgement in this decision, it is unfair to make such a blanket statement, that is so triggering.

             It sort of reminds of one militant vegetarian I met that made the statement that the artificial insemination of poultry was rape.

            27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

            by Kozzmo on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 11:02:04 AM PDT

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            • I don't see.... (1+ / 0-)

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              how it diminishes anyone EXCEPT those who abuse children whether it's for satanic, christian or other purposes. If anyone chooses this course then they should be diminished. As Christians we're called to protect and care for the weak, the sick and those most vulnerable. Personally, I don't know how anyone could call themselves "Christians" that don't do that.

              You got that there was a political spin to this post simply because the article is about how some christians choose to withhold medical comfort and care and have their children suffer and die? Hey, sorry, it's a fact. If some Christians feel it's an unfair attack on their philosophies, so be it. I feel they need to be attacked for such practices. This post ain't about politics, it's about children being refused medical care. Which is cruel and inhumane... and in my estimation unchristian.

              God acts through us, through doctors and others. All of us are constantly channelling God's power. God's power flows through us, we're emmanations of God. Our abilities and talents all come from God. To deny children access to the gifts God provides through health care professionals is to deny God's help and saving grace. It's tantamount I believe to denying God.

              Opinions I realise vary, but those are mine.

              • This is a question of definition (1+ / 0-)

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                I agree with you that the failure to provide adequate medical attention could be considered to be neglect, however, I would like to suggest what I would consider to be abuse.

                There are many warning signs of abuse of children. One sign, one or two times, does not necessarily mean anything. Keep watching before you jump to conclusions but once you are reasonably sure, report it to the proper authorities. That's the law and the only choice when children are involved.

                Physical Abuse:  
                Sores, burns, bruises on body. A reluctance or vagueness about where these originated.  Bruises and burns are the most persistent physical symptoms.

                Neglect:  
                Soiled diapers, dirty hair, unwashed clothes, body odor. Sometimes weight loss and lackluster skin and/or hair can indicate neglect, particularly in a proper or sufficient diet.

                Emotional or Mental Abuse:
                This is harder to tell. Abused children often become quiet but that is not always a way to tell. Lack of self-esteem is another way to tell but again, that does not mean children are abused.

                Sexual Abuse:
                There are warning signs of sexual abuse of children, too. Precocious behavior; sexual knowledge, through language or behavior, that is beyond what is normal for their age; copying adult sexual behavior;  inappropriate sexual behavior such as kissing on the mouth and/or attempting to insert tongue in your mouth; soreness, redness, chaffing around genitals; habitual sleeping with parent of opposite sex in pre-teen or older; reluctance or outright refusal to let you wash or dry those parts of  the body; persistent sexual play with other children, themselves, toys or pets.

                Remember that inappropriate touching is also sexual abuse. This is not uncommon, particularly when alcohol or drugs are involved.

                source

                27 and 42 = 69, six and nine equal 15 which subtracted from 42 = 27 42(27)=1134 1+1=2, and 3+4=7, taking us back to 27

                by Kozzmo on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 01:40:30 PM PDT

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    • Blood Libel ... (0 / 0)

      OK ... maybe there's a misunderstanding here based on different groups of people using the same words to mean very different things.  "Sadist" and "Satanist" both begin with an "S" and policemen use the words almost interchangeably when they find a dismembered or partially eaten corpse.  Onliest problem being: wasn't no 'satanists' or 'sadists' involved -- just dangerous crazy people who may have picked up a bit of pseudo occult iconography on which to hang their obsessions.

      The fact is, there haven't been a lot of 'satanist' Witches  (outside the fevered imaginations of Christian witch hunters) since the mid 1600s ...  and whether or not they ever practiced ritual sacrifice of children, much less torture and sacrifice might be best evaluated by considering how often Jews used the blood of unbaptized Christian babies to bake Passover matzot.   Not saying it never never ever happened anywhere ... only that Jews and Witches never found those practices anywhere in their oral or written traditions -- although "ain't it charming what people will confess to under torture ?"

      But it's not the least unfair to generalize that Religious Right parents and educators tend to handle their little ones a good deal more roughly than Mainstream Christian  and seculars find quite decent. See link to Jordan Riak's "PTAV" -- an organization primarily of moderate Christian parents and teachers opposed to battering children in the name of 'discipline.'

      Granted, taxing the religious right as a whole  specific with the specific practices of withholding medical care, -- much less the whole 'drinking poison and handling serpents' ritual -- is probably a step too far.

      But, if one takes the trouble to read Dr. Dobson's books on Christian Child Rearing, it doesn't take a particularly unfriendly or overly analytical mindset to find an ongoing theme of physical and psycho sexual child abuse wrapped in the rubric of "spare the rod".  

  • This is wrong. (4+ / 0-)

    But there are more children...and adults...dying every year because the American health system fails the working class and poor.

    Oldest of the Old Ones, I am, Mother of the stars and of the earth.

    by Alexandra Lynch on Sat Jan 05, 2008 at 08:03:14 PM PDT

    • ...and thousands will die (1+ / 0-)

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      because they are not paying attention to a very real and threatening issue that may soon overtake us.

      It is certainly neglectful to not prepare for something that is a very real threat simply because they do not want to consider the evidence that has been laid out for them.

      I am not sure if anyone here knows who Michael Osterholm is. He is the "director of the Center for Infectious Disease Research and Policy, editor of the CIDRAP Business Source, director of the NIH-supported Center of Excellence for Influenza Research and Surveillance within CIDRAP, a professor in the School of Public Health, and an adjunct professor in the Medical School, University of Minnesota. He is also a member of the Institute of Medicine (IOM) of the National Academy of Sciences. In June 2005 Dr. Osterholm was appointed by Michael Leavitt, Secretary of the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), to the newly established National Science Advisory Board on Biosecurity.

      Here are some of his quotes...

      In 1918, even among the very young and the very old, there was a ten-fold increase in deaths, ... There was a 1,000-fold increase in young adults. M. Osterholm

      "We can predict now 12 to 18 months of stress of watching loved ones die, of wondering if you are going to have food on the table the next day. Those are all things that are going to mean that we are going to have to plan — unlike any other crisis that we have had in literally the last 80-some years in this country."

      "Recent clinical, epidemiological and laboratory evidence suggests that the impact of a pandemic caused by the current H5N1 strain would be similar to that of the 1918-19 pandemic,"

      "What this research does is it provides us with the evidence that we have to look into the eyes of H5 and realize it . . . has the potential to be a cousin of H1N1. Then that tells us we’re potentially going to be experiencing an F5 and not an F1."

      "Pandemics of influenza are a lot like hurricanes, tsunamis and earthquakes, ... We’ve learned that the virus actually causes massive infection in humans...[and] turns on one’s immune system in such a way that it alternately attacks the organs in the body."

      Perhaps I should charge each and every parent who does not prepare for their family with neglect or even abuse. Certainly, a lot more than 150 children over 10 years will die from what is ahead.

      "Happy the generation where the great listen to the small, for it follows that in such a generation the small will listen to the great" Hebrew Proverb

      by standingfirm on Sun Jan 06, 2008 at 11:51:44 AM PDT

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