"Mary's humble Yes": A Rant
Thu May 08, 2008 at 07:45:31 PM PDT
So I was leafing through an essay at the library tonight, trying to decide whether to take out this book on von Balthasar's theology. The topic of the essay was Mary, Peter, Christ, and the Church. I'm leafing through the section on various ways that Mary typifies the church, and come across this phrase, "Mary's humble Yes."
And it makes me want to throw up.
Am I the only one?
It makes me want to throw up because, first of all, when I look at Mary's lines in the annunciation story? I don't see humble. I see honest, I see brave, I see questioning, I see reflection, and I see acceptance. Humble? Not so much.
But mostly, it makes me want to throw up because when I read the words "Mary's humble Yes", I don't actually hear a positive statement about Mary. I hear a negative statement about me.
You uppity women! What's wrong with you? Pushy, arrogant, demanding, power-hungry, unfeminine -- you want to be priests? You're power-hungry and serving your own ego. You want to control your own bodies? You're selfish, disobedient, and rebellious, unwilling to trust in God's Providence, Eve and the apple all over again. You want a voice in the church? It's just all about power for you, isn't it.
What's the matter with you? Don't you know you're supposed to take Mary as your model? Mary was humble. She did what she was told. God told her what to do and she said "Yes, Lord." See, now that's how women are supposed to be. Meek and mild, humble and obedient, subservient and compliant. Don't you know it was Mary's humble Yes that saved the world? Why if she hadn't said Yes, Jesus would never have been born and God's plan for our salvation would have been over before it had properly begun.
What blows my mind is that "Mary's humble Yes" completely skips over the part where she says to the angel, "Hello? Virgin here. Even a virgin knows you can't have a baby without having sex. What are you talking about?"
Mary, like her ancestress Sarah, had the nerve to question an angel that was apparently talking nonsense.
Mary was an unwed mother, a scandal by the standards of her community.
Mary was a refugee, fleeing persecution.
Mary came after Jesus one day, along with the rest of his family, to try to drag him home and stop this crazy carrying on all over the countryside.
Mary watched her son die a horrific and shameful death.
Can't we please, please, please find more to say about Mary than her "humble Yes"?
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