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Hot Holy Sex

Wed May 07, 2008 at 10:20:29 AM PDT

More movement in a progressive direction is being detected in some evangelical circles. This time in the area of sexual matters.

Traditionally, it's been thought (and taught) by many, that Christians should believe sex is only for procreation. No fun allowed. However, there's a growing number of Christians that feel God created sex for a number of reasons. Yes, procreation is one, very important part, but the profound spiritual/physical power of sex is so much more complex and far reaching than simply that. Much less appreciated. Citing scripture, they say the Bible also encourages sex as a way to strengthen marital bonds, as a defense against indiscriminate lust, and as a means for dispensing pleasure and comfort. Far from being against adult sex education, a growing number of Christians now are actively seeking ways to improve their sex lives within the context of their faith.

All I can say is... Hallelujah!!!

Allow me be one of the first to offer my evangelical brothers and sisters good luck and Godspeed in this worthy endeavor of their's.

Christians Promote Holy, Hot Sex in Marriage
By SUSAN DONALDSON JAMES

More evangelical couples -- once embarrassed and prudish about sex -- are now leaving their Christian inhibitions at the bedroom door.

For this growing group of younger, more progressive Christians, guilt is out and pleasure is in.

"We discovered that God's word is holy and hot ... filled with invaluable wisdom for our sexual relationship," says intimateissues.com, one of the most popular Christian Web sites. It is based on a 1999 book by the same name.

The Christian wife has come a long way, baby, as a variety of sex advice books with titles like "Intimacy Ignited," "Gift-Wrapped by God" and "Satisfy My Thirsty Soul" are emphasizing the earthly as well as the heavenly side of love.

Pastors are sermonizing and sexologists are offering conferences to help couples overcome their guilt about a once-touchy subject. And, they offer new translations of scripture to give biblical clout to their message.

"People carry a lot of guilt from parents who said sex is bad," said the Rev. Kerry Shook of the Woodlands Church outside Houston. "We help them to have a healthy sex life. One of the things we cover in scripture is how to meet each other's needs in bed." [...]

'Sex Is a Gift'

This new genre puts less emphasis on grin-and-bear-it submission and more on mutual pleasure. Evangelical ministers say the church should play a role in spreading the good word.

"Sex is a gift, a good thing," said the Rev. Adam Hamilton, pastor of the 14,000-member United Methodist Church of the Resurrection in Leawood, Kan.

"God allows you to have pleasure," Hamilton told ABCNEWS.com. "That's how he designed your body. Once you learn it's a gift from God, you embrace it and lay aside the shame." [...]

Love, Christian-Style

"Do you want all of their learning to come from the playground or shaped by what the scripture says in the context of the church where we talk about love and fidelity and mutuality and justice?" he asked.

The scripture is exactly where more Christians are turning to spark discussion about the subject. Old Testament stories involving Adam and Eve and Sarah and Abraham are bringing life to sexual discussions. Hamilton said a new translation of the Hebrew word "paradise" suggests more earthly than heavenly overtones.

Though many churches still consider sex "prurient and fleshly and not to be discussed," Hamilton said a more open discussion is actually strengthening marriages.

"Folks who are married and people of faith tend to have more sex, more often than people who are swingers."

(my emphasis)

Married people of faith have more sex than swingers. Who knew?

I guess if I studied the bible a little more carefully I wouldn't be as surprised as I am by this development.

As a loving hind and a gentle doe, let her breasts ever give you rapture; let your passion at all times be moved by her love.

Proverbs 5:19

How beautiful you are and how pleasing,
O love, with your delights!

Your stature is like that of the palm,
and your breasts like clusters of fruit.

I said, "I will climb the palm tree;
I will take hold of its fruit."
May your breasts be like the clusters of the vine,
the fragrance of your breath like apples,

and your mouth like the best wine.

Song of Solomon 7:6-12

Is it getting hot in here, or is it just me?

Anyways, it's good to see that a growing number of people of faith are seeking to understand and expand on this wonderful gift from God, within a spiritual context. For too long the puritanical approach has held sway and caused great harm to many. Puritans and some other Christians often viewed sex, laughter, happiness, and pleasure as suspect and undesirable. Making matters worse, they frequently tried to impose their doleful philosophy on others.

It appears the times are a changing.

This also encouragingly points to the continuing and growing influence of progressive thought within the evangelical community.

Let's see, there's the Green Evangelicals, the Manifesto Evangelicals and now, the Hot Holy Sex Evangelicals. What's next? Hippie Evangelicals?

Ooops, I forgot, we already have them. Sort of.

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